How do I better accept and deal with my fiance's relationship/friendship with and loyalty to his ex-gf from HS. She never left their hometown, and when he entered the military she turned down his invitations for her to join him many times. They have both since been married, had children, and divorced. The last time they actively attempted reuniting was approx 5 yrs ago (while my man was technically still married). He and I have been together for three years. I understand they have a long history (20 years)and will always care for one another, and mentally accept that. How can I stop feeling threatened and hurt by having to share his loyalty? He's visiting her right now and as much as I want to be OK with it, my heart is broken. I get angry hearing him talk about her and her child. He gets very defensive when I try to talk to him about it. I logically have no problem with their friendship, and understand he'll always be there to help her out if she needs him, but I feel betrayed!! Help!
2007-06-08
05:58:57
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myrisbyrd
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