A friend of mine is getting married out of state in August. Her shower is in July. I can't make it to the shower, but I am planning on attending the wedding and reception. I asked a question about giving cash as a gift at the reception, and received responses that it was sort of tacky, and that a gift would be better. One guy even said that bringing a gift to the reception was tacky. My question is: Should I send a gift from her registry to the shower even though I can't attend, then just show up at the reception empty handed, or should I send nothing for the shower, but bring a nice card with cash to the reception? Or should I do both--gift for the shower, money at the reception?
2007-06-07
04:59:15
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brevejunkie
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