i am 49, and he's 66. we've been married for 4 years, and he's tried to adjust to a marital situation, but can't. he did not tell me he was impotent before we were married, which has been hell to endure (the "what's wrong with me?" syndrome lasted the 1st 3 years for me)..he finally admitted he's had this problem since in his 20's. don't suggest viagra (he hates sex). i just found out on memorial day that all his war stories, medals, navy seal, wounds and purple heart were all lies. (he was storekeeper, not special forces operative, never even went to vietnam). he's also told ridiculous stories to everyone he knows about his different music recording offers and friendships with movie stars and singers. he told me that he wrote buddy holly's first hit! (now, i know they were all lies). he was diagnosed bipolar 2 months ago and sees a doc.
how wrong would it be if i were to get out of this mess i'm in? am i obligated to live in this forever?
2007-06-05
17:30:04
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Marriage & Divorce