I'm 17 (male) and have been "hanging out" with this girl for months, having now blindly taken a step toward dating. I say "blindly" because I like her and all, but I'm not physically attracted to her. But she is head over heels for me! She wants to hold hands, kiss, make lots of bodily contact, while I just enjoy her company and making her happy, but not feeling any passion for her. Yet I keep relenting and basically leading her on into getting what she wants, while all I would rather do is just be friends.
Now at the same time, there is another girl I met this year to whom I am extremely attracted, and dream of dating. She seems to be interested in me, and I want to pursue her, but am afraid of hurting the girl who likes me. On top of this, the girl I'm currently "with" really looks down on the girl I like, and I know she would be crushed if I ditched her for the girl that I have the hots for.
I'm torn between the girl that I like and the girl that I want to love. Any advice
2007-05-25
20:27:03
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Justin M
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