while at work these co-workers began talking, this guy asked this girl what she was doing tonight, and then she said she was going back to her hometown, and then this guy said he was going to be playing with someone's boobs and she asked who's boobs and he said "melinda's boobs, " (my name's melinda,btw) and i was right in front of him and he laughed about it and i was speechless, i was like "jeremey" because that 's his name and he said "what ,you can't say aything , your blushing" and i was like , i put blush on today, but i'm not blushing and then he didn't say anything afterwards.. should i have just shrugg it off, i think he knows i like him, but i'm trying to get over him b/c he is soo rude sometimes
this guy is 24 and i just turned 20 .
2007-05-25 20:24:39 · 8 answers · asked by angel 2 in Society & Culture ➔ Etiquette
I think this guy likes you but he is nervous to tell you ,So he is making a sexual comment about you. I think this is the only way to vent his feelings about you?. Next time he makes a advance or comment tell him you will complain to your boss and try to appear serious or the threat will go unforseen . Or kick him n the blls. R Both
2007-05-25 20:35:26 · answer #1 · answered by uber-urban 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Lol...This guy is trying to push your buttons. Chances are, he is this "bad boy" type, who likes to see how far he can go before making people snap. (I know It's a thrill, it's a turn on...this reminds me of an aquarian crush I have....) Anyways, unless it greatly disturbs you, then yes, you should shrug it off. He clearly wants to see your reaction, and if you react the way that he expects you to, you are just a form of social entertainment to him.
2007-05-26 03:29:45 · answer #2 · answered by Boo Bee 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
He sounds moronic. If he is attracted to you this is a dumb way of showing it and not very caring or creative.
If he is so blantantly rude now, how do you think he would be in any sort of relationship?
Raise your standards, find someone with a cell.
2007-05-26 11:52:04 · answer #3 · answered by Pacifica 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Why can't you let this exceedingly trivial and boring incident go!?! BFD, some immature jerk made a comment about playing with your ****! You're sounding every bit as stupid as his comment was obsessing over it like this. Get a life!
2007-05-26 06:45:32 · answer #4 · answered by barbara 7 · 0⤊ 1⤋
He maybe overly shy unsure how to approach someone he likesor he maybe just crude. anyway he was way out of line and Iwould reconsider my feelings toward him.
2007-05-26 12:56:17 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Report him for sexual harassment if it bothers you to that extent.
Otherwise, you could either tell him to shut up or just laugh it off.
2007-05-26 09:55:30 · answer #6 · answered by ohsnapbeth 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
uhh yah. This sounds a little silly. tell him to shut up next time and laugh it off...i guess.
2007-05-26 03:27:23 · answer #7 · answered by mistista07 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Just tell him to keep his crap to himself or something. It's downright rude, don't tolerate it.
2007-05-26 03:34:10 · answer #8 · answered by Michelle L 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋