Judge if you like, but if you have a heart, please offer some clear advice without hate; I've been married for nearly 10 years. For the last 8 I've been trying to resolve the emptiness... I've sat him down, I've threatened to leave, I've begged for attention and made suggestions. I've tried a hundred different ways and suggested counselling. Instead, he's beaviour is so incongruent as to leave me wondering what he's been up to for the last 5 years. So a year ago, I met someone. Rightly or wrongly we've fallen in love, yet refrained from a physical relationship (yes, we know it's an affair anyway.) So I've told husband I give up, told him I feel nothing for him. His reply.. tears, "victim" playing, and leaving everything in my court - leaving or staying. I'm the bad guy no matter what, yet I find it hard to leave for the sake of my child. My love has asked me to marry him, which I would readily do... but how do I move on without causing so much pain?
2007-05-19
06:55:20
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