When i'm trying to be a good stepmother it seems i just don't fit in with the family in general. such as, when we were at the store the other day, my stepchild called my niece the N word in the checkout. i turned around a popped her for it and told her not to EVER say that again. i also popped my niece(black) for picking on her. The family behind me was white and they looked at me in horror and shock! i just don't understand why.
or like last week when we were at my husbands(white) mothers house for a get together. you would'nt believe how many people stard ar me when she called me ''mom''. Her real mother is strung out so i guess she calls me mom which i have no problem with. but his mom suddenly snatches her to the side and pops her on the hand and tells her''shes not your mom!'' I really wanted to say something but i did'nt know how far i should go as a stepmother seeing as though she was HER blood grandmother.
i'm new at this whole stepmother thing and young. (22) i want to Be as good as a stepmother as I could be but some people in his family (not all, unless you include society Makes me feel so out of place and like I have no authority over his little girl.
2007-05-05
08:55:52
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