i have a problem with forgive people who never apologize and mending the relationship, I will forgive people if they sincerely apologize and mend the relationship, but not otherwize. People say you have to forgive to find peace which i agree, i love to forgive if others can show some corporation. I can't forgive those who never apologize because i think 'if they can do this without apologize, what if they do it again and hurt me again?' can someone tell me is this way of thinking normal? e.g. i had a best friend who backstabbed me to others, i was very hurt, i apologized to her for anything she maybe unhappy with me, but she never sincerely apologized, so we are not talking, I'd LOVE to forgive her but she never give me any chance, should i just forgive people any any cost so i can find peace?
2007-05-04
13:50:53
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