Ok how do i start... my mother in law lives in California i live in wi. Before i had kids, she came to visit us once or twice a year for about a week. I can totally deal with that! Since i had my first child four years ago she has been adding a week and a visit and has worked her way up to 3 weeks at a time 3 or 4 times a year!!!! Now dont get me wrong I love my mil but this has gotten out of hand. It's so hard for me to keep any kind of routine when she is around. And it takes me about a month to get back on track once she leaves. And just to clarify she does'nt spend the whole 3 weeks at my home she splits it up between her moms and my bil also, but i never know in advance what nights/days she'll be at my house and she does spend the majority of her time at my home. So i need some opinions. Can i ask her to only stay at our home for a set amount of time like one week each visit or something, how do i go about this with out sounding like a selfish *****? Any advice Please?
2007-04-23
15:25:58
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