i go to a local nightclub, a chap who works there has become a close friend, he knows i'm married, and respects that, is happy to be friends nothing else, he's told me recently that he's in love with me, it does show, he walks like he's got his head in the clouds, others have said as much, i don't want to hurt him as he's a great guy, if i wasn't happily married, i would be interested, as he, like my husband is the older variety, which i go for, plus we get on well, he's widowed, good company, and tactile, like me, that is, he hugs a lot, which my husband isn't. i love my husband, and wouldn't cheat, but i care about this friend, what do i do? my husband has no idea, this chap also writes poetry, and has written me one from the heart, he's genuine and sincere just as my husband is.... help!!! and i don't want to stop going to the club, i feel comfortable there, my husband was the one who encouraged me to go in the first place
2007-04-08
03:55:08
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chakra girl
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Marriage & Divorce