My new plan is that when ANYONE asks my anything I am not comfortable with, I am just going to say "I don't answer personal questions' or 'that's personal'
Now when I say this to my mother she will be defensive and tell me how I am being rude and it is a perfectly normal question... etc etc. It is all my fault of course. At that point I plan on telling her good bye and haning up the phone... or saying to my kids 'ok kids, lets go, grandma is crossing my bounderies again...' and leave (or ask her to leave if it is in my house). And refuse to discuss it further (even though she will try to get me to talk about it 'don't you want to talk about it'? "what about the kids, don't you think they need time with me?' 'don't I get one more chance?' etc). I plan on just repeating myself... 'I need to ask you to go now" over and over until she goes. Her husband can take her side.. they need to go
Does this sound like a good game plan take control of my life again?
2007-04-06
07:09:52
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