BF of 5 years proposed 2 weeks ago. Yesterday had an argument over the purchase of a house. I am ok with the purchase, but house needs work. I said that I would like to have put in the paperwork, that IF a divorce or seperation happened I would not take the house, nor be responsible for the mortgage.Yes in a way that is selfish on my part, but I thought it would be good for him, I mean, hes already had 2 divorces & lost everything except the clothes he was wearing. He got mad, told me now we aren't getting married. No big deal been together this long with out it anyway. Anyway, my question is, was I wrong to ask to have that stipulation put into the paperwork? And was it really worth ruining a whole day and half the night over? I would like to thank you in advance for the advise and please dont judge me for not being married, I have also been married & divorced.
2007-04-02
02:01:18
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