I mean..after some years of marriage they came to face their different beliefs..and feelings..over the oposite sex..can he love her ..if he is 35 and her 34...they see they are different as they were at 22 and 23 ..when they were together..and din't wonder what do you think...about ..God..life..?
then HE calls HER ''idiot ''and ''stupid ''dayly..and says her brain is washed by church..and HE says ''Let God..buy you clothes..'cos I am not going to give you another $''..and if he drank smth..he says..''you will go on foot tomorrow to schooll(she and their daughter.)'cos Christians..don't go by cars..
2007-04-02 02:00:21 · 22 answers · asked by Anonymous in Society & Culture ➔ Religion & Spirituality
and if they don't walk hands in hands since their child was born..when she was 26 and he was 27..,and if they do go together on the streets since then...and if they never talk about nothing..and never had a common opinion..alohough he graduated law..and if he goes out in town dayly just to his friends and women..from his society...and let her home..and come in the midnight...and he never holds her...
2007-04-02 03:42:54 · update #1
and if when first had sex...and she was a virgin...he told her..after teaching her..sex ...you are as professionist as..X..but she was a little fatter ..and worn underware from New York..(X was a kind of prostitute ..who had some financial big resoures..comparing with that country..)
Do you think he loved her if he told this to her...And why would a man who slept with prostitutes..want a virgin woman to marry..and why make her behave in bed as a prostitute..then which is the difference betwwen them...it is just the thing that men want to be loved by a virgin ..and an intelligent woman but want her to behave like a prostitute in bed..Then ..what glory does the man have..if he enjoyed the prostitute ..but wanted just a vergin to marry..and stay there..why be glad she was virgin when he slept with other girls and even prostitute..And he said...''I am glad I brought you to my bed...''why glad when he did what he did before...why didn't he think she deserves
a better boy?
2007-04-02 03:52:37 · update #2
Not a good idea. Maybe for a one nighter. Birds of a similiar feather flock together. You are in different worlds. Gay people don't usually marry straight people. It usually doesn't work out.
2007-04-02 05:11:56 · answer #1 · answered by westhighland 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Yes, a godless man can love a very Christian woman, just as this very Wiccan woman loves an agnostic man (and is deeply loved by him in return).
But the situation you're describing is not love. Clearly this man does not love this woman, so either of their religious beliefs become moot points. He is not insulting and berating her because he doesn't believe in her god, he's insulting and berating her because he clearly doesn't know how to treat other people with respect, and that too has nothing to do with their respective religious beliefs.
She should leave him immediately, because he does not love her, and may never have if he can treat her this way.
)O(
2007-04-02 02:09:16 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
Can a Godless man love a very Christian woman?
I am a godless woman who loves an orthodox man.
It is possiable as long as each shows great respect that this is the way this person understands the world. Questioning that is trying to uproot their life.
but this just sounds too hostile to last.
2007-04-02 02:12:46 · answer #3 · answered by jess 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Yes a Godless man can love a very Christian woman, because its the woman he loves not the religion. There is far more wrong in the marriage you are describing, far more than a religous matter. Sounds like he is using religion as a scapegoat, a reason to get out. Sorry.
2007-04-02 02:07:25 · answer #4 · answered by Leah 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋
godless man love christian woman
2016-02-01 11:22:13 · answer #5 · answered by ? 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Sounds like two people with a problem and one using that as an excuse to abuse the other.
I've lived with my wife for 31 years. She's Christian, I'm am not. Atheist, in point of fact.
She doesn't try to force her beliefs on me, I don't talk about her religion. Works fine, for us. But we also don't have any underlying issues as it sounds like above.
2007-04-02 02:05:18 · answer #6 · answered by Radagast97 6 · 1⤊ 0⤋
A Christian woman should accept a husband whatever his attitudes or behaviors are. She can show the good smell of Jessus and can change that husband. This is not easy and that may be her cross to bear. The Lord is able to change people and that may be a trial from God to test her faith.
2007-04-02 05:25:21 · answer #7 · answered by albeir k 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
This man obviousl,y has some issues calling with Christainity in general. I mean If his man really loves his wife he would try to make it work and hey even give Christianity a try. you know, see what his wife is so excited about. I mean really, what's his deal?
2007-04-02 02:07:27 · answer #8 · answered by sYnDiA 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Sounds more like a jerk to me.
I doubt if it has anything to do with God or a lack there of.
I have been married to an agnostic for almost 40 years. She gets a little tired of hearing about God but we seem to get along pretty well.
Love and blessings Don
2007-04-02 02:10:47 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
You answered your own question! He does not love her by being verbally abusive. If he could just let her have her own beliefs but he won't let it be will he?He should respect her because she is his wife. She becomes defensive..........it's a circle. I don't think these people need to waste one another time.This man is very mentally abusive!
2007-04-02 02:14:51 · answer #10 · answered by Pamela V 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋