Here's my dilemma: I've known this guy since I we were in grade school together. We lightly dated our senior year in high school, and have kept in touch for the last 10 years...both of us in and out of relationships during that time.
So now, recently we've reconnected...and like I felt in high school--there's so much about him that I'm attracted to. He's kind, warm, funny, we share similar interests, has great friends and family, drives me wild when I see him with kids, and we have a great time when we go out. I'm just not 100%, physically, attracted to him. Not completely unnattracted to him, mind you. But the spark isn't entirely there.
I recently went to visit him (he lives in another state), and now that I'm back home, I miss him. Is this fleeting? Or can this grow? I realize that you shouldn't settle, however, despite the physical-I feel that I wouldn't be entirely...like I'm missing out on something if I DON'T end up with him. I can't "shake" him from my thoughts.
2007-03-27
20:02:36
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Erin D
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