Well, I meet this girl some time ago... I was very attracted to her. She is gorgeous!!! But for some reason she couldn't stand me. I didn't know why I'm a nice guy. Anyway, we ended up sharing a condo together. So even though I didn't like her and she me, we deiced to stay on our side of the condo and if not necessary talk to each other. It's been about six months and we hardly ever get along. She acts very much like a *****! Getting mad over stupid little things. Long story short, I woke up last night cause I thought I heard something. It was coming from in her room. I knew it wasn’t a guy; she doesn’t have a boyfriend for some insane reason. I knocked on the door. There was no answer. I went in. She was curled up in bed having a nightmare, sobbing, and pushing at the sheets as if it were something or someone trying to harm her. I tried to wake her up, but this only made things worse. She began clawing at me and sobbing really badly, over and over, “ No, don-’t, don’t…Ple-ase I’m so so-rry, don’t ple-ase!” I gathered her up in my arms and tried to calm her down. She was burning up with fever! Her heart was pounding hard against my chest. Her eyes were huge, confused, and very frightened. It was very weird seeing her like this. She put me through hell and I should have walked away. But I couldn’t. She cried for over an hour as I held her, stroking her back and hair. When she finally stopped, she called my name as if confused, and said, “ Don’t leave me. I didn’t want him to hurt me again, I just didn’t want him to…”She buried her face in the side of my neck and started to cry again until she fell asleep. I don’t know how to ask her who hurt her, how, and when, without making her cry. How should I go abut it??? Should I even ask her???
2007-03-27
20:07:28
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