I always has been no fate with guys, difficult to get to know guys as I'm not extrovert or attractive (not like other gals who can make friends with guys easily), is this my fate arranged by god?? what should i do??
2007-03-27 20:07:26 · 6 answers · asked by pinkgrapes2007 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
i once heard from somewhere that pretty girls dont have to understand men, and the ugly ones have to understand men. I've never met you so I'm not trying to call you ugly but if that's how you see yourself then maybe you may just need to study guys a little closer. Also, it wouldnt hurt giving yourself a make over. Not only will you look better than before but it will make you happy and even boost your self-esteem. Self-esteem works!! I've seen gorgeous girls go unnoticed because they have very little self-esteem. I suggest that you accept who you are and try to make the best of it. In other words work with the cards you were dealt with.
2007-03-27 20:16:00 · answer #1 · answered by itsSCIENCE 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You live with the appearance and personality you have. Any attempt to change either is to be fake.
Yeah, everyone here is going to say YOU'LL MEET THE RIGHT GUY ONE DAY!! Well reality steps in with false hopes. What can you do? You live with the circumstances you're given, what else can you expect to do?
Now that doesn't mean don't let your good qualities shine, but not everyone is born looking like Jessica Alba nor does everyone have an outgoing personality.
2007-03-28 03:12:39 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Dont wory about it. guys dont like loud rude bossy or out there typ of girls. Yes they date them and thats jus about it but ur special enough to b more than that. respect urself say hi and keep going with your day. take it from a popular cheerleader its not always wut it looks like and not always what u think. we sumtiems hide who we r and that hurts us the most. think about it wood u rather b popular allowing ppl to run ur life, always woring about how u look, and whose with your boyfriend and who ur boyfriend is with while being with you or jus aid back and relaxed? Id take ur life n e day. High school or middle school is for now which ever evel ur at its not forever. focus on sumthing else. I've seen countless of ppl get left out on graduation b cuz a guy and being friends with them and being with them was more important at the time. In the end they go on and become nothing n life. all due to what? A guy who they really didn't like and things didn't work out for. Good luck and dont worry about it. save it not only for a real man but for sumone who cares about u and its not these skool guys either. b urself. relax a little that goes a long way may be thats what it is n e ways.
2007-03-28 03:16:12 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
There is someone for you. A lot guys are like this too. Maybe you will meet one online, on one of the more serious dating sites (example: eharmony, as opposed to some of the others). Maybe you'll meet one if you join a club or group for some interest that you have—perhaps reading or some other quiet activity. Or maybe at church if you are religious, etc.
2007-03-28 03:11:06 · answer #4 · answered by Jacques 4 · 0⤊ 1⤋
Have confidence. Go out and meet guys, and just people in general. Enjoy life, and if you don't get a guy, don't feel bad. Just keep trying, and keep learning.
2007-03-28 03:19:24 · answer #5 · answered by ? 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
suicide, sleeping pills, or drug over does.
sounds good?
2007-03-28 03:33:24 · answer #6 · answered by Mike 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋