I've been missing a girl for 11 months. I liked her, then fell in love with her, but she never liked me back. We had a friendship that lasted 4 months. She got mad at me for a mistake I made which takes too much explanation and two months later she told me she didn't want to talk to me anymore. I HAD NOT been talking to her since she said she didn't want to talk to me anymore. I thought things would be cool between us so recently for the 1st time I tried to talk to her but she completely ignored me. I told her I only wanted us to be friends again but she wasn't hearing me. She talked to everyone who came in the hall but me. I just said "ok, I get the point, you don't have to say anything else. I guess I'll just see you around." I left the hall and haven't said anything to her since.
Five days later from this-yesterday-a teacher came to me and pulled me out of class, took me to her office and told me to please leave the girl alone. The teacher explained the girl went to her about me in the morning. I've only tried to talk to her that one time, I've only called once four months ago (then hung up and never tried again), and I only gave her one letter on Valentine's Day. Like I said, we haven't talked for 11 months and that's plenty of opportunity I could have used to harass her, which was/is the last thing I ever want to do to her. I told the girl that too, when I tried to talk to her I said "I don't want to bug you or harass you or anything so I'm going to leave." Then I said the aforemention sentence after trying a little more to get her to listen to me. After the day I tried to talk to her I continued to pay no attention to her. So I'm in the office and the teacher says leave her alone and that her MOM called the school about me. It was like they were accusing me of harassing or stalking her which I had NOT been doing, and like the girl purposely omitted how many times I've ACTUALLY tried talking to her, (once). I think she made it seem like I constantly bother her. The teacher said "It's not that she doesn't like you, it's that she doesn't like you in that way." If it's not that she doesn't like me, then why was I called out of class behind her and I didn't even much do anything to be called out of class for? The lady said I'm not in trouble, but I'm still not telling her happy birthday today, I really don't want to see her again, I never want to talk to her again and when I graduate I never will so good riddance to her and I'm making sure when I find someone else I'm doing a lot better from this experience.
2007-03-27
20:55:10
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