This is a tough question to ask without sounding absurd & offensive, so I'll try my best to explain it well:
Example; I'm a short light skinned black guy. My whole life most black girls, total strangers, have been nothing but offensive to me. When ever I dress nice & smile, white girls, hispanic, & some asian girls usually smile back & show that they like & want to date me. Most black girls however, will laugh at me & call me gay. I've learned that many black girls think if a guy is light skinned, short, & not the big dark rapper stereotype, that it means their not real men, & your weak. Even believe your on the "DL", & never give you a chance.
This attitude forces me to dress down, & made me feel ugly, stupid, & inferior. Black culture in general puts it's own people down when ever you don't fit what they think a real man is or looks like. I've always been rejected by it even though I try to be as nice as possible.
It's getting more difficult not to hate my own culture.
2007-03-24
18:28:37
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