Im a little worried about my partner. Im 30 weeks into a planned pregnancy with our first. He was really excited at first, but now the due date is looming he has become quiet and miserable. Everywhere he goes people are telling him that its really hard work, that he won't have any time for himelf, won't e able to do do anything but look after baby etc. Its really getting him down as he is a musician and although he works he also needs to practice a few hours a day, as well as go out some nights. i have tried to tell him its not just him looking after the baby, Im here to an we can work around it, that i wouldn't expect him to give up his music, but he just won't listen to me. How can i make him understand that yes life changes, but u don't have to give up everyrthing, there are ways around it. Its effecting me because i want this to be a happy time, not doom and gloom and I want him to think positively about having a child, not thay its all terrible.
2007-03-16
01:38:51
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Serry's mum
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