I have a strong tendency not to let things go whether it may be something someone said or did, maybe they didn't mean it in a bad way but if i get even a hint that they were looking down on me patronising me in anyway, then i just see red. I dont go beating people up, but verbally and emotionally i cant let go, i cant let things just be and i let people get to me if i perceive them as threatening me or insulting my character. I know im extremly stubborn and hard headed and usually dont take very many peoples advice but im just wondering does anyone have any suggestions on how to just let things role off my back and not be so defensive, or is it something thats just in my nature and character?
Serious answers only please,if anyone comes and tries to wind me up,it wont work,with this question i know some people might think they have open season on me,doesn't work like that.
Anyways, im sorry for rambling on and thanks if you even read this long lol. =)
2007-03-16
01:38:02
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Chyme
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Psychology