I don't want to hurt her or him but she already has a baby and I would like to start a family with my man. She doesn't like my man at all but i love him. I don't want to lose any of these people from my life. I told her I would but can't break it to her.
2007-03-16 01:38:13 · 9 answers · asked by Petal 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Family
"My man"....LOL!!!
If you want to move with him, you're going to have to tell your sister sooner or later! Of course, I would recommend you stay with her because he most likely isn't going to be "your man" for the rest of your life, but your sister is always going to be your sister.
2007-03-16 03:56:34 · answer #1 · answered by spelling nazi 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Since it sounds like there are bad feelings between your sister and your man, start by breaking it gently. Tell your sister that you know she has strong feelings about your man, but as a grown woman you have decided to follow your heart and make your own life choices. In that your sister has herself made a life choice about bringing a baby into the world, she should understand. If your sister was counting on you to split rent or cover half the bills, you should make this move gradually so that she is not in a financial meltdown. Perhaps you could find someone else to share the place with her, thereby helping her out with your situation. If you and your sister are close, this will only be a small bump in the road in your relationship. A sister's love is forever and you should tell her that when you break the news.
2007-03-16 02:26:43 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
You left out a lot of info, but I’m going to assume that everyone involved is an adult and that since you told Sis you were moving with her, she’s counting you to be there to split the bills. IF that’s the case, she’s not going to be happy, and has every right to be upset. And it shows an extreme lack of maturity on your part to walk away from something you committed to doing (and something someone else was depending on you to do) just because you got a better offer. Tell her you’re moving in with Boyfriend, but give her time to find another roommate before you do it (at least 3 months).
Of course, my assumptions may be wrong, because, again, you left out a lot of info.
2007-03-16 01:54:53 · answer #3 · answered by kp 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You should do what feels right for you. If you are ready to start a family with your man then you have got to put yourself and your happiness first. Your sister may be mad with you for a while but that has to be expected, but once she sees how happy you are she'll come round. She's family, you won't lose her. If you're certain that this man is the one for you then choose him. Good luck x
2007-03-16 03:40:32 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
I was in a play with a similar theme. Tell her you must choose a life for yourself. Later, your sister may understand.
2007-03-16 01:43:04 · answer #5 · answered by Spotlight 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I'm sure if you tell her in the right way , she will undrstand, after all you must live your life for you, not for anyone else.
2007-03-16 01:48:34 · answer #6 · answered by Weed 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
just tell her. If she loves and cares about you then she should understand.
2007-03-16 01:43:27 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
how bout you and your sister move in with me
2007-03-16 01:42:15 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 4⤋
Who cares.......just do it. men are more important than family. believe me, i know!!!!!!!!!
2007-03-16 01:41:50 · answer #9 · answered by hiya 2 · 0⤊ 2⤋