For the most part my husband and I have a fairly healthy relationship... no talks about divorce anyways. We could work on intimacy but that's a whole different question. When we do get into arguments I get very stubborn, (as does he), but I also get very rebellious and spiteful. If what he's arguing with me about is the laundry I won't do the laundry for days. And the word "Idiot" comes out of my mouth A LOT while we argue. NOW - I am not saying that it's all me... he has a big problem with compromising and he yells the entire time we argue while I very honestly do try to keep the tone down. BUT I know that if I were able to stop "pushing his buttons" and being spiteful we could probably accomplish SOMETHING with our arguing. How can I overcome this?!
Please don't tell me to "GROW UP"... this is not a constructive, helpful suggestion.
Not sure if this applies but I have always been this way... its roots are w/ my dad.
I expect an answer from you "The Sylvan Wizard" - give it to me..
2007-03-12
02:03:48
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THATgirl
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