I’ve been dating this guy for about 4 months now, and I’m confused because I’m not quite sure if he’s looking for the same thing I’m looking for. He’ll call maybe twice a week, but he tries his best not to call that much he says that he doesn’t want to “sweat” me, which means he doesn’t want to show me that he likes me too much. I understand that because no man wants a woman to think he’s hooked on her so soon. We’ve had sex almost 4 times within the time frame that we have been seeing each other, and he’s came over maybe twice, and we’ve just chilled and watched a movie together. I’ve never dated a guy that didn’t want to be around me all the time, and it’s kind of confusing, not that I like being smothered because I don’t, I just feel like I’m not getting enough attention from him, especially if he’s supposed to be my man. Every time I complain to him about the time we spend together, he says that he’s going to change, but doesn’t, and then when I tell him that I don’t want to waste my time on someone who doesn’t want me he confesses his feelings for me, and keeps me holding on. Something keeps telling me that maybe he is interested in me, but doesn’t want to move to fast, I think he’s trying to feel me out, and see what type of woman I am before he commits to me, and I understand that. But he’s not giving me an opportunity to feel him out, because I might be the type of woman he wants, but he may not be the type of man that I want. Please give me your opinions on this situation, because I’m so confused. Should I stay or should I go?
2007-03-07
01:29:58
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