Love is such a complicated issue. I have been with my boyfriend for 7 months, and I know he cares about me. He reassures me this from time to time, but there's that whole love issue. We have never said "I love you" to each other, and we had a good discussion about it and its meaning. He says that he doesn't want to say those three words without really meaning it, and I am very glad and definitely respect that, for I know those words are often said too easily these days.
However, I know that he has said "I love you" to one of his ex-girlfriends (and they were together for a little more than a year). At the time, I believe he also felt that love was a great risk to take, but I feel as if he was willing to risk that love for her, to risk acknowledging that he did love her...but maybe not so much with me. I'm not even sure if "love" is the main issue here...maybe I'm just feeling like I'm second best, like well...yes. Something along those lines.
Thanks I greatly appreciate this.
2007-02-28
21:14:36
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