I just broke up with my girlfriend of 4 years a few months ago and found out that she was getting married to someone else. They got married last week. I am in a profound depression and have so much guilt and regret in my heart that it is hard to go to work, do anything.
We were dating long distance the past 1 1/2 years (she lives in a different country) and I thought things were great. I feel so bad because I had so many chances through the years to marry her, and each time I told her I wasn't ready, but that we would get married soon. So, I did postpone things MANY TIMES. She waited SOOO Long for me, then I guess decided she couldn't wait longer. She said she wanted to get married and have a family.and that this other guy was willing to do it and that I never was ready and she thought I never would be. Communication was bad at the end so I wish I knew what she really felt bcs. I would have asked her to marry me. I have so much regret in my heart, it is terrible. I feel so bad
2007-02-26
02:08:31
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robert7
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Marriage & Divorce