My 15 years old daughter has been very oppositional since childhood. When whe was 2, I put her in time-out, when the time-out was up I told her she could come off the steps. She said "I don't want to" and she continued to sit on the time-out stairs. Thus began the stuggle for control.
Now as a teenager if I ask her to do things, i.e. dishes, pick up clothes, she usually refuses though occationally she will cooperate. We used to be close, loving, and I thought she would eventually grow up and be less selfish and stubborn. Wrong.
She is now refusing to get up and go to school. She is too old and strong to drag her out of bed and dress her. We've taken away TV, ipod, computer use, going out. She refuses to talk to a couselor/therapist. I've tried to be nice, tried to joke with her, tried to reason, yelled, nothing seems to work. She is now laying in bed, draws in her book and is driving me crazy.
I need help and advice, I find it harder every day to love her.
2007-02-26
02:33:56
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CraZePeahen
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