please help we live in millville nj and my friend has 2 boys 9 and 10who are completly out of control has aske

Question

these boys are extremly dangerous to themslves and thier mother. no respect of anyone.she has asked for help from social services and mental health. they all say there is nothinh to be done. they physically abuseher and mentally abuse her i have never saw such behavoir in children. they do not care who you are or whaT HAPPENS TO THEM. she is ready to have a breakdown. i have done everything i can think of the only thing left is to put them somrwhere they can get 24hr. supervision because she cannot even sleep. theybusted out the headlights andflattened all 4 tires. thats the latest youy wouldn't believe the things they have done
where do you go when they call dyfus on you and your the one being abused but no one wants to help you????

Answer 1

These kids need to be put in an insitution while undergoing serious counseling. ALSO the mother needs counseling. because SOMETHING is causing this type of behavior... Kids dont just act like this.. especially so young!

Where is their father through all of this?

Answer 2

Well one way she could do this is go to the hospital and check herself into the hospital tell them she has two kids and she is suicidal and she cant take care of them anymore! Then she can get the help she needs and so can they.

She can turn over custody to someone else of her children, like the father or grandparents, aunts or someone who can handle and put these kids back on track again.

Next time they get out of line she can call the cops and tell them to take them, even if its to juvenille. Call the Maury show maybe she can get help like through a tv talk show for bad behavior kids.

She has to step up and do something because by doing nothing she allows it to happen. good luck.

Answer 3

Have they been disciplined at all? of course, at this point it'll probably take more, but spanking does work wonders! That is CONSISTENT DISCIPLINING