I have been dating this man for 3 years, living together for 2. We have a baby together. Hes older then me, and has been married before. And one of our biggest problems is that he doesnt want marriage with me, or more kids.(1st wasnt planned)
I am Canadian, and he is Swiss. I moved to Switzerland for him. And lately we have had a big life change with the baby and him having a better job. I dont speak German, and cant really communicate with anyone but him.
I have been really unhappy in our relationship. He will stay up until 3am on weekdays playing video games, and 6am on weekends. I take care of the baby AND his other 2 kids. He knows how I feel, but says he "cant love me anymore then he does, he has other things to worry about". And it hurts, I know he is stressed, and we fixed that he can go out once a week to relax, but it doesnt make a difference in our relationship.
I am unhappy, but if I leave him he will never see his son. Hes so unwilling to change or work on "us".
2007-02-26
23:51:07
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