I'm seeing this guy and he's very fit. He's into body building and working out and I'm not. Although I'm tall and slim, for some reason I get painfully shy about my body when I'm with him! It's like I don't want him to see my fat thighs, hips and ****.
I'm not usually like this at all! I've always been happy with my body and celebrate my curves, but where he's so perfect and I'm not - it makes me feel inadequate about myself. He's never ever said anything bad about me, in fact he always complimentary and he never sits there talking about himself, but when we get intimate I find that I can't relax and enjoy it, I'm too busy thinking about holding my stomach in.
My friends reckon that he's a bloke and he doesn't notice these things that I worry about, but because I'm aware that he's very into his physical appearance I worry that if he see's all my bad bits - he'll go off me.
I'm surprised he isn't dating one of those gym freak girls with rock hard abs and buttocks!
2007-02-22
22:20:54
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