Shouldn't he be with a Miss World type???

Question

I'm seeing this guy and he's very fit. He's into body building and working out and I'm not. Although I'm tall and slim, for some reason I get painfully shy about my body when I'm with him! It's like I don't want him to see my fat thighs, hips and ****.

I'm not usually like this at all! I've always been happy with my body and celebrate my curves, but where he's so perfect and I'm not - it makes me feel inadequate about myself. He's never ever said anything bad about me, in fact he always complimentary and he never sits there talking about himself, but when we get intimate I find that I can't relax and enjoy it, I'm too busy thinking about holding my stomach in.

My friends reckon that he's a bloke and he doesn't notice these things that I worry about, but because I'm aware that he's very into his physical appearance I worry that if he see's all my bad bits - he'll go off me.

I'm surprised he isn't dating one of those gym freak girls with rock hard abs and buttocks!

Answer 1

uh well.....youre together, it must mean he's attracted to you. try to be more comfortable, it would be a lot, lot worse if he says youre not good in bed right?

stop comparing yourself with the others, just compensate with what you have and can do. im sure theres a reason why he preferred you than those gym freak girls. i have never known a guy who likes his girl hard. its creepy. girls are supposed to be soft.

Answer 2

I would say Take his word- I use to date this one guy who had it all- He was too goodlooking and it scared me- I decided to end it- cos i was always thinking he should be dating those model types but he was with me. To your boyfriend he may be thinking the same as you- but he chose you!!!!

Answer 3

Option 1)
dump him and find a guy that is ugly so you can feel better about yourself

Option2)
Believe him when he says you're pretty.