Help My husband was molested as a child in foster care by a group of petifiles who called themselfs "open loved ones" at a "RED DOT" swinger party as boy of 6 to 8 1/2 . Everyone got arrested and sent to jail for almost no time at all (2 years at most) after found out about STD he got over 22 years ago.
we have great sex and he's fantstic with oral but will not let me have a turn. I really need this because in 10 years of marriage he never let me have a go because of very hard memorys of past abuse and threats made on him!
We have a great marriage and wonderful sex exept I'm not allowed to give him oral. I did not think anything of it at first but after 10 years I need him to give me that trust, because I'm not one of his attackers I'm his WIFE I wont hurt him. he curls up and shakes HOURS when I try! I sometimes cry and curse his abusers that did this to him, But would still like him to enjoy what he give's me without question.
Should I give up? Or should I keep trying?
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2007-02-19
19:12:59
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