I was with this girl for 5 years
my job keeps me away 7-10 day at a time but than I can take off us much as I want to
4 years into the relationship she becomes unaffectionate, distant, cold all the typical behavior of a woman who wants to break up and she did....but she was back the same night with big tears telling me how sorry she was for hurting me and wants me back....since i still loved her we got back together
but I made her promise if she ever has an issue come talk to me and we work it out
she did agree to that but year later around late September early October of 2006 she start to do the same thing but worse....she would change her plans 3-4 times a day just to avoid me when I got back to town
not answer calls etc...if I was lucky enough to spend some time together she behave like a friend not a girlfriend....even in bed when we were sleeping ....no not having sex....just sleeping and I tried to take her in my arms as I did for 5 years she would push my arm away and than in the morning when I asked what was that all about she would say “oh I was just sleeping, sorry” but I know she was not
then Oct17 sweetest day after I tried to arrange some time wither and sending nice txt msg she tells me she does not believe in sweetest day when for the past 5 years she did...she change plans that day 3 more times so I confronted her and thats when she said she needs some time to figure out who she is
two weeks later we broke up and her only excuse was that she was 19 and I was24 when we met and she is changing
its been few months now, but I'm resenting her more and more as time goes by.....if she acted like an adult and was honest with me and told me up front maybe we could have been friends but all she did was lies lies lies and deceiving.....and women wonder why all the guys out there are jerks
as far as I'm concerned she broke up with me on sweetest day after 5 years of loving relationship ( never had a fight)
will I ever stop resenting her for it?
2007-02-15
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