Me and my mates were having a laugh down the pub the other day about my girlfriend smelling a bit downstairs. she ended storming out of the pub. when i got in the next morning she was still in a mood. I told her not to be so silly and all women had that problem, but she's still mad with me. Any ideas on how i can make her see sense? its doing my head in now.
2007-02-15 01:11:11 · 21 answers · asked by victor 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Number 1/You have no respect for her,and number 2/ Not all women "smell down there"
2007-02-15 01:14:36 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 3⤊ 0⤋
I wouldn't have waited until you got in NEXT MORNING, staying out all night you would have been well dumped. I don't know who to feel the most sorry for - you or your girlfriend. You come over as a sad, pathetic excuse for a man and she must be really stupid to have anything to do with you. It's ignorant, uncooth and downright low to talk like that with mates but somehow there are some (thankfully not all) males who think they are 'big' by doing this......bad enough talking in general but to actually be talking of your own partner. Only way I could describe you is 'the lowest of the low' and wouldn't give you houseroom. All women DON'T have that problem and have you ever thought that is could be via YOU that is causing the smell??? It's not her that needs to see sense but you. If you think anything of her you should be telling her how sorry you are.......that's if after reading what everyone is saying to you it at last sinks in you are in the wrong........then promises that nothing like that will never happen again. If you still don't see where you went wrong hopefully she will decide not to be your girlfriend any longer.
2007-02-15 01:26:20 · answer #2 · answered by Ms Mat Urity 6 · 1⤊ 1⤋
Try putting the boot on the other foot - Hyperthetically speaking - how would feel if a group of girls were sat in a pub talking about your tiny, cheese smelling, manhood and laughing and joking about it right in front of you - i'm sure you wouldn't see the funny side - would you?
Perhaps you'd understand her reaction if you look at it from this point of view.
Ooooh, if it were me i'd have given you a complete verbal battering! Very disrespectful!
2007-02-15 01:20:45 · answer #3 · answered by LittleAnnie 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You may have thought it was a joke, but actually, it was an insult. You hurt her feelings and shamed her. What I wonder is, do you have any idea on why she didn't slap you right then and there, then leave your sorry but for being so insensitive? Man!!! I can't believe she is still with you. She must really love you.
Have you ever thought about how you might smell down there?
2007-02-15 01:19:38 · answer #4 · answered by summer 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
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Once you do that then you can start to worry about getting back together with your ex, other wise you will find that you are fighting about all the same things and getting no where. Do what it takes and I promise things will work out in your favor.
The funny thing is I came to the realization that I had to change a little too late. After I was kicked out and after I was about to lose the only things that truly mattered to me - her love. A funny thing happens when we truly love someone and lose them. We do what ever it takes to get them back. For me I had to drop bad habits that had caused not only our relationship to sour but practically every other relationship I had had in the past. Not only with women, but with friends, co-workers, family, you name it.
Which is why I say to you as my ex at the time said to me, the only thing you can do is change yourself. Work on yourself and improve on the person that you already are. Drop the negative things in your life that don't belong there and you will see all of your relationships start to take off to new heights.
2016-04-22 07:58:19 · answer #5 · answered by ? 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
that is such a bad thing dude. really a woman doesn't take something that bad lightly. u took the piss and she is hurt now coz all though u say u was joking the fact is tha women like to keep clean and a bloke even saying something like that is making other people think if its actually true. and the fact is tha u had a laugh at her expense
2007-02-15 01:21:33 · answer #6 · answered by haze 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
have you got any idea how to deal with women at all mate? That was the biggest no-no i can think of, and in front of your mates, that is cold mate. if she is still with you she must really like you. I would grovel and quickly cause if she goes and tells her girlfriends they are all going to be telling her to dash you
2007-02-15 01:27:31 · answer #7 · answered by Sylar 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
You're the one who should make yourself see some sense. If i were your girlfriend I would've left you a long time ago.
2007-02-15 01:19:16 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
You have to make your points with more tact. And by the way, that means that you will NEVER EVER EVER be able to be sincere without a fight. You want to be good with women, take courses in being a hostage negotiator.
2007-02-15 01:16:32 · answer #9 · answered by nassim420 3 · 0⤊ 1⤋
you have dug a hole mate and it's getting deeper just say sorry and take her out to a nice sea food resturant and don't forget to tell her how great the smell of fish is ..
2007-02-15 01:18:36 · answer #10 · answered by londonletch 2 · 3⤊ 0⤋