EVERYONE LOVES HIM....my parents, my friends, my relatives....He is wonderful, caring, trustworthy, hot, great job, gorgeous house, genuine, would be a great father.....I have always been in drama filled relationships and FINALLY decided to get out of it after 7 years and this has been my 1st non drama relationship. My ex still carries his torch in my head for some reason. I guess its cause our relationship ended with me in infatuation over a jerk and it has been very troublesome for me to forget about him every day.
I took a 6 month break and then met my new boyfriend. We clicked. We both wanted to get married to each other someday, have kids together, and live in our "now" house FOREVER.
One day my feelings clicked off. Honestly, I woke up one morning after we were dating for 3 months and had come to the conlusion that I didnt love him anymore. Since then I went on some anti-anxiety meds and my feelings have been up and down. Some days are awful while some are great. When we are out of town I dont think about anything and have a good time with him, BUT when we are at home I get all anxious and feel like I dont love him anymore...I dont know why but the smallest things he does annoy me and the next day everything could be fine. I just dont feel as romantic as I used to with him. I still enjoy having sex with him and spending time with him but feel as though something is missing or I dont love him anymore? I dont trust myself with this relationship. Please help, I hate hearing that I am not in love with him anymore...For some reason people re-assuring my love for him makes me feel better?!?!?
Are there any suggestions and/or any way I can make this work? I want him to be the father of my children and my husband and be happy with it!
2007-02-12
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