What age were you when you first had sex?

Question

I am trying to poll and see how the "talk" relates to sex for the first time. I want to know how old you were when you first had sex and did your parents have the "talk" or did you have to figure it out on your own? Also how old when the parents had the "talk" with you. Just trying to see if there's any coalation here.

Answer 1

I was a few days older than my 15th birthday. My parent's never had any sex talk with me (that I can remember). If there was any one thing I could go back and change in my life (I am 37 yrs old now) I would go back & undo that & wait until I was more emotionally mature.

Answer 2

I was 16. I never had an official "talk" with my parents, but I always knew i could ask questions if I needed to. School sex ed filled in some of the blanks but a lot I learned on my own

Answer 3

My Parents never had the "sex" talk with, I mostly read about it in books. I had sex when I was 15, just to get it done and over with. I wish I would've waited, it wasn't all it was cracked up to be. I didn't love the guy and kind of felt dirty afterward. It would've been different if I'd been in love. Sex is better with someone you're in love with. My Mom knew I was having sex...Mom's always do, so she wasn't surprised when I got pregnant at 19. But on the up side, I'm still with the guy who knocked me up :) and we're deeply in love with a 17 month old baby boy!!

Answer 4

I was 15 when I lost mine and I never had "the talk". The closest thing to "the talk" that I got was my father asking me if I had protection when I was 17 and in a relationship. I guess the either assumed I knew or were uncomfortable bringing it up. To be honest though, I wouldn't have listened. While I was a good kid for the most part, I wanted that very badly and jumped at it the first chance I had.

Answer 5

I was about 10 or 11 when my parents talked to me about sex. I had sex for the first time when I was 16. My hubby never did have the "talk" with his parents and didn't have sex until he was 18. We were both virgins and have only been with each other. Hope this helps.

Answer 6

I was 17 when I first had sex - in the summer of 1988. My parents "talk" consisted of my dad saying "Don't get her pregnant", so my first experience I had to figure it out. I learned most of what I knew back then from school, in sex education class; which really didn't do much justice.

I'd like to know what your study concludes, so let me know how it turns out.

Answer 7

i never had the "talk" really, i grew up w/ a mom that was in the medical feild so i grew up w/ a lot of medical books around and i read them (well when i was young i kinda just prentented to do what mommy was doing lol) round about middle school is when i started to fully comprehend them and i never had to have the "talk". I first had sex at 16

Answer 8

I was 14, and I really wish I would have waited! Parents never had "the talk" with me. I sat my brother down when he was 13 and had the talk with him (may have scared him though, still a virgin at 18).

Answer 9

i was 14. my parents didn't have the talk and i had to figure everything out and once i fount out what happend i was mad and didn't have sex again till 17 to my husband now. I plan on telling my kids specially if i have a girl

Answer 10

I was 15...i regret it now because I was was way to young! But my mom had the sex talk with me a few times before that...Im just not for sure how old I was.