I have two stepsons and a stepdaughter. (Grown up now.) My husbands ex-wife never cared that the boys liked me, but was jealous of her daughter getting on with me. I didn't stand a chance of getting close to her. She was very young when her mum influenced her and eventually she wouldn't come anymore. Last week we met again at my stepsons daughters christening. My stepdaughter walked straight passed me and spoke to my husband, much to her mothers delight. I felt so frustrated and hurt because I've never actually done anything wrong to her. What I feel most hurt about is the fact that my husband knew she'd ignored me, but spoke to her anyway. I feel this looked to her as though she could treat me as she wanted because her father didn't care much. I don't him to fall out with her, but couldn't he have shown her that he won't have me treated like that. Later I asked her to visit anytime and she turned me down. Am I wrong to feel hurt by his loyalty to me?
2007-02-05
06:06:17
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