Just wondering if I am supposed to get like my cake and punch servers, guestbook attendant, and hostess a small gift? These people are my good friends or realtives, and my mom says shes never gotten anything for serving cake or anything like that so you don't have to, but I just wondered if she was just an exception and you actually are, or if giving them something isn't typical. I'm not talking a huge gifts, just a nice candle or something like that to show I appreciate them, but if that would be wierd I don't want to.
Also, I have a good family friend singing in the ceremony---do I pay her since I am paying the friend whose playing the trumpet, or should I get her a gift ceritficate to go eat or something, or will a nice thank-you card suffice? whats the general opinion!? Thanks!
2007-01-29
02:46:59
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