This is a question mostly directed at straight women, and lesbians who have dated 'straight' women: I'm in love with a former collegue. She's 35 and 'straight' - but drunkenly admits to to me that she has crushes on women (though she takes it back again later). She knows to a certain extent that I have feelings for her, and seems to encourage this - since we met she has been constantly flirting, telling me how 'beautiful' I am, and constantly contacting me and inviting me to things. When we're out together her body language implies that she's flirting - lots of touching, eye contact, etc. But when I flirt back with her she seems to back-off, so I'm afraid to make a real move. She also seems to like to make a point of discussing her heterosexuality with me - talking about 'hot' men, heterosexual sex etc. She's an extremely sensitive and kind person, so it seems unlikely that she'd intentionally tease me. Do you think she's interested? Should I make a move or just wait and see?
Cheers!
2007-01-29
18:02:10
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