why is it every time i try to talk to my crush at school something goes wrong
e.g his m8s appear out of no-where etc
EVERYTIME i've tried theres allways been something blocking my way
HELP
2007-01-29 18:02:41 · 24 answers · asked by SophieKayy 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
It sounds like you are not assertive enough.. Get his number and try talking after school.
2007-01-29 18:07:06 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
Don't listen to this fate BS. YOU make your life what you want it to be. You won't know if he is right for you until you actually talk. I had the exact same problem in highschool. What you do is wait until the end of school and kind of inconspicuously hang around crush's locker at a distance so as not to appear ready to pounce, but just minding your own business. Then, when there are little or no people around approach your crush and ask if he can talk for a second. If your friends show up tell them that your talking right now and that you will call them later. If they dont leave, tell them to piss off cause if they havent caught the drift by now that you are trying to connect with this guy, they never will. If you have to ask if you can go and talk in your or his car.
2007-01-30 02:17:10 · answer #2 · answered by tazman2087 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
People will always be around. You merely notice this more prominantly because you have a huge fear of being judged by others in the crossfire effect. It is not the freinds that you fear judgement of. It is the fear that his reaction to you may not be true in the presense of his friends. It leaves this sort of eerie silence in the air when you are trying to figure out what to say and what not to say in front of everybody. When it is only you and him, then no matter the reaction, you can that you both can speak freely without the fear of judgement.
To see that this is merely coincidence... look at just about any of your other friends. How often are they alone? But yet you never really notice that so many people are around when you are with someone you are more confortable with.
Want to talk to him without everyone around. Easy, just find that one oprtune moment when you have just a few seconds alone, slip him your number and ask him to call you. after a phone call or two, you will be more confortable around each other and wont notice the others so much anymore.
2007-01-30 04:16:56 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
I think u r waiting for the guy to be absolutely alone before u talk to him…
If this hasn’t happened till now and u r really going crazy… why not try a little more eye contacts and signals to let him know that u r really fond of him..
If he’s interested as well he’ll definitely plan in such a way that u guys get to have ur first talk once… otherwise trying being a bit more BOLD…
But take care n do not go over board ï… lots of luv n lots of luck…
2007-01-30 02:19:38 · answer #4 · answered by nachiketa10 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
guys and their friends are a real pain sometimes especially when you would like to talk to him without a crowd around. Find out what he likes and talk to him about that or what mark he got on his class whatever stuff like that. You can try to talk to his friends too. Smile at him, wave at him when passing in the hall, wait until its clear of his mates so you can see if he is interested too. Thats why its good to be nice to his friends no matter how silly they are. This way you can find out stuff. Plus guys like it when you get along with their buddies. Good Luck
2007-01-30 02:21:11 · answer #5 · answered by inlovefor 22years 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Because that's life hun. We always have to climb to get something and in this world all the good things are very difficult to reach and we need to be determined to get them. So don't give up keep trying until you get what you wish for and that's my advise hun.
Hope this helps and Good Luck.
2007-01-30 02:52:26 · answer #6 · answered by Falcon 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Dont stress about it. Thats life, just keep trying! If everything was plain sailing life would be pretty boring.
Just relax take it as it comes and deal with it, you cant change things just make the best of them.
2007-01-30 04:46:23 · answer #7 · answered by djp6314 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You have to work out a cunning plan as they say.
Try to be where you think you have more chance to accidentally bump into him on purpose.
Make sure that he wants to talk to you though. If he does, then there will always be a way.
2007-01-30 11:44:31 · answer #8 · answered by ? 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Thats just sods law, its typical to happen but it always does. The best thing to do is not give up and keep trying your day will come when you talk to him, jus dont give up! xx
2007-01-30 02:43:02 · answer #9 · answered by Kimmy xx 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
sounds like luck of timing to me but i mite have misunderstood the info. well i tell alot of ppl CONFIDENCE is key, and if you like this guy then let him know, dont let anyone stop you from sayin what you have to say(or talk about). you jus need to find him at a rite time.
2007-01-30 02:08:33 · answer #10 · answered by airdog 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋