I resent not having more children. We have two of our own and he has a daughter who lives with us as well. Ages are 12,6 and 4. I have lived with wanting more (2 or 3, but would compromise with 1) for over 2 years, but my husband hasn't. I realized back then that u shouldnt force a child on someone else so i accepted his decision. I got out of the house,studied and started a career. Got a cat n took up a hobby that takes me out of the house one night a week. I even tried counselling. I think I have done all the right things to accept this decision and move on with our lives but nothing has worked! What else can I do? A month ago he told me that he realized that I have tried hard to change the way that i think and i am still unhappy with that aspect of our lives(even though he knows i try to hide it), and that he will change his mind to make me happy, because he realizes what this means to me. Should I get pregnant? I don't want him to resent me. He is a great father and hubby
2007-01-21
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