I am pretty sure im straight but some people at school (all boys school) think im gay because i barely talk to girls but that is because im so shy and nervous around them and it's very frustrating.
2007-01-21 15:19:12 · 9 answers · asked by Anonymous in Society & Culture ➔ Cultures & Groups ➔ Lesbian, Gay, Bisexual, and Transgender
Hmmm. I am confused as to how you arrived at the conclusion because you are shy and nervous talking to girls and attending an all boys school this may indicate you might be gay. Better questions to ask yourself would be, am I attracted to other boys or a particular boy in a sexual (intimate) way, do I fantasize about having sex with other boys, do I have a crush on another boy, etc... If any of these questions are yes, then you may be gay or you just may be curious. Listen, as a gay male, I knew I was gay throughout school. I liked boys sexually, I fantasized about them, and had crushes on them. However, I did not find myself uncomfortable around girls and I did not attend an all boy's school. Therefore, using your criteria, I would have to guess that you are not gay. Either way, gay or straight, you are still o.k. I hope this helps.
2007-01-21 16:00:27 · answer #1 · answered by Dee 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
A gay male is attracted to other males sexually and at times, emotionally. He is sexually aroused by males and not females. If given a chance to look at pornography, he will choose to view material with nude males, not nude females.
Being shy around the girls has absolutely nothing to do with being gay.
A gay male will not even WANT to date a girl. Straight (and bi) men want and do date females.
A gay male's sexual fantasies revolve around other males, not females. When masterbating, he will think exclusively of men, not women.
2007-01-21 23:27:52 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
you know thats a good question, the guys in your school are already jerks becuse they think your gay in the first place, plus its not there bissness in the first place to think if your gay or not. And like some other guy said you are stright becuse you think your stright, unless your have dreams about kissing boys. so dont worry about it. oh and about the boys at your school just tell them that there gay, and they just dont know it yet.
2007-01-21 23:37:17 · answer #3 · answered by Bicente G 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
there's nothing wrong with not talking to girls
ur gay if u think ur gay
not if other people think ur gay
since u think ur straight, u must be straight
2007-01-21 23:21:59 · answer #4 · answered by dewgongoo 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
People that call you gay are probably covering for themselves
2007-01-21 23:22:01 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
I would think that ..... if you are sexually attracted to females ( and you are a male ) then you are straight. If you are a male and you are sexually attracted to males ...... you are gay.
2007-01-21 23:24:32 · answer #6 · answered by burlingtony 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Are you asking if ur gay?.. cause you kindof contradicted youself... If you have sexual thoughts about guys.. your gay...
2007-01-21 23:41:14 · answer #7 · answered by Chris L 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
By going to take a gay test. duhh!
2007-01-21 23:22:19 · answer #8 · answered by Taya W 1 · 0⤊ 1⤋
your gay if you want to have sex with other guys and say things like "hes got a nice ***" or "would love to suck his cock and balls"
2007-01-22 11:14:01 · answer #9 · answered by alistairjarvis 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋