I have this friend (well, I can't call her that anymore since she's obviously not a friend) who asks a lot of favor for me and I do it for her (yeah, I'm not stupid).
Lately, I can't help but notice that when me and our other co-worker go out to have lunch or something like that, she really intentionally deliberately ignores me. She does it by talking to that other person with much enthusiasm and cheerfulness while she ignores me. When I try to start a conversation with her, she answered me with a very short sentence and with NO enthusiasm in her voice at all.
And when it's just the two of us having lunch together (without this other co-worker ), she hardly talks to me at all like she thinks I'm boring.
Sometimes life is really unfair. You invest by doing a lot of good things to a person and she treats you like trash.
I feel disappointed coz I always notice this patter in my other friends. When they’re with me, they don’t feel like talking and hardly starts a conversation. So I always end up trying to start a good conversation just so they wouldn’t think I’m boring and just so I could be close to them. But they look like they have NO enthusiasm in talking to me.
But when they’re with other people, even when the other people are quiet, they do all the talking with a lot of enthusiasm and the other people don’t even have to try to start a conversation., they just listen
2007-01-11
19:35:30
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