All my life I'd always been a "loser" with women - couldn't get a date to save my life in most cases. Then I met a woman a little over a year ago who was everything I wanted - attractive (very), intelligent, nice, everything. We fell in love with each other and things got very serious; we even talked marriage. Then after her birthday in September, she pretty-much dumped me. I mean, third time she says "I want to marry you" and then six weeks later she's sleeping with some other guy. Pretty painful to say the least. Anyway, I'm at a crossroads: I'm afraid I won't find something else, the "beggars can't be choosers" mentality, I can't lower my standards (I'm just not that way) and I REFUSE to "use" another person to get me over her, thus hurting that other woman in the process. I feel caught between a rock and a hard place and since more (non-serious) relationships are the best way to get over past ones, I'm at a loss. What can I do?
2006-12-27
19:43:35
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