He had a fling with girl (who was cheating on her boyfriend, who she is still with - the boyfriend knows they flirted - which is not the whole story). I come into the picture. I tell him he has to choose. He says he chooses me. They decide to be plutonic. They are "still friends".
But he said to me (this is a while ago) "I will always be emotionally intimate with her"
Since then, their contact that I know about has slowed down, but there is still his phone and his work email.
But why would he still hang out with her? Should I be worried? Do you think something is up or am I overreacting about nothing?
Since then he told me he cares for me very much.
But he is also being particular about the costs of things when we go out - ie split 50/50 exactly, whereas he wasn't before. If I say I will pitch in for someone's birthday present who I barely know, he expected half from me. He did turn his head to the side when she tried to "hello" kiss him on the lips though.
2006-12-19
13:33:51
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Anna K
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