2006-12-19 13:32:24 · 17 answers · asked by MANGA 2 in Society & Culture ➔ Cultures & Groups ➔ Lesbian, Gay, Bisexual, and Transgender
this person was infected by a blood transfussion,,,ps to "jesusloves",,,please who the f*** r u to judge? ur not only a moron but also very ignorant,,,,,
2006-12-19 13:44:31 · update #1
This happened to me.
I was against falling in love with anyone HIV until I met him. Then it was a case of "so what." There were no second thoughts. I had waited all my life to love HIM, I couldn't just NOT love him. So, I married him 13 months after we met and we were married for 6 years before he died. He lived with it for 14 years total and I was proud to be with him. We fought it together the best we could, but it won. Its been 9 years, I'm still clear of HIV, so I feel fortunate that I never got it, but we were careful.
Would I do it again? In a heartbeat!
2006-12-19 14:12:56 · answer #1 · answered by AdamKadmon 7 · 3⤊ 0⤋
Well I certainly would stop being friends with someone who was HIV+, so I wouldn't exclude a potential soulmate from becoming a part of my life. That said, I would ABSOLUTELY stress that we use protection every time we have sex. If he wouldn't, then at that moment I would find it impossible to be with him. I would also get tested according to what guidelines exist. I would probably join a HIV support group for spouses, as I have a pretty good hunch that life with a HIV+ partner in a world intolerant of those with the disease would be pretty tough. As far as kids go, I don't want any in the first place, so that solves that issue.
2006-12-19 14:09:02 · answer #2 · answered by Megosophy 2 · 1⤊ 1⤋
I would treat the person as I would treat anyone else. A persons HIV status shouldnt be a problem if there is open communication, trust and love. Also, I would look up information about safe sex practices with the partner present and ask the person how they feel about discussing their HIV status. Then I would hug the person and thank them for having the strength to communicate opening with me.
2006-12-19 17:24:53 · answer #3 · answered by Orditz 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
particular I even have. yet Its no longer determining at alright now yet its in basic terms a ruff time we are dealing with. We nonetheless understand we like one yet another no depend what. And nd you will basically understand once you have meet your soul mate signs and indicators u meet him: a million. You wanna be around him perpetually 2.He makes u sense information on a thank you to in no way sense with every person els 3.you will provide up something for even your guy or woman stay 4.And whilst he's prepared to provide up something for you there is maximum of greater yet thats some i wish evrything seems right.
2016-10-15 06:54:34 · answer #4 · answered by ? 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Not sure really. If she was my soulmate, I'd marry her. For children, I guess I would have to do something other then intercourse.
PS.JesusLoves: Not all HIV+ Peopl get it by Sex and drugs. There are other ways to get. I know what your saying and all. With purity and all, as I support that. But dont judge a person by their cover.
2006-12-19 13:50:48 · answer #5 · answered by TehOverlord 1 · 1⤊ 0⤋
If I found out that my soulmate is HIV+ it wouldn't matter to me because it doesn't change my feelings towards the person. If i loved this person will all my heart and soul then it doesn't matter, i'll be right there at their side during their time of need and make him/her happy all day towards the end.
2006-12-19 15:41:25 · answer #6 · answered by dark&pure? 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I believe that you can still have sex when you are infected with HIV. Of course, it is still risky (as is all sex, however), but taking all precautions, you can still be intimate with one another, and with less risky types of sex (like manual stimulation of one another with gloves and condoms), we can still have a physical connection.
I would certainly stay with him/her- he/she is my soulmate! The worst part would simply be like it would if I knew anybody had a disease that was most likely terminal and would put them through hell. It'd be hard to watch and bear, but I'd be there.
2006-12-19 14:04:57 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 2⤊ 0⤋
i would stick by there side i wouldnt leave them because of it that would mean that you really didnt love them the way you say you did and it would mean that wasnt your real soulmate cause when you find the one that you can call your SOULMATE then it really shouldnt matter what they go though cuz what they go though u do too well suppose to
2006-12-19 14:00:49 · answer #8 · answered by CiCi 2 · 2⤊ 0⤋
sit down and talk about how we were going to deal with it..as well as get some professional medical advice.
2006-12-19 14:34:22 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Some stay with people who have worse illnesses (like people who abuse them emotionally or physically, etc).. I'd be more concerned with this twisted kind of love.
2006-12-19 14:07:51 · answer #10 · answered by arc* 2 · 2⤊ 1⤋