I am 18 weeks pregnant , i am 26 . This is my third child ( i had 2 in a previous relationship). The father of this baby is 38 , he has no children and we are just friends. we had sex and i found out i was pregnant . we talk all the time about the baby but when i asked him if he wanted to go to the ultrasound the other day he all of a sudden seemed scared. when i asked him what was so scary he said we've talked a lot about it , even picked names but it doesn't seem real to him yet and seeing the ultrasound would make reality set in and that seemed to frighten him. I called him after the ultrasound to tell him we are having a boy and he was excited ! What is going on , he knows but how can i make him realize this is very real ? And he will have to either find a way to deal with it or spend his life missing out on his child due to fear !
2006-12-15
02:16:30
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