she is a friend i've konwn only a while but i dont understand all the boys she claims she gets am i right or wrong for saying i feel strange around her she is 21 so she isnt underage but she is a good friend i am stuck and need help what should i do.
2006-12-15 02:15:32 · 13 answers · asked by allen_lashun 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Friends
You shouldn't feel strange she is just different it isn't anything to be scared of..Just talk it out with her let her know that you are uncomfortable with her sexual preferences, and who knows she might not ask you out!
2006-12-15 02:19:53 · answer #1 · answered by Kayishere4you 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
He is feeling incredibly embarrassed right now. A person cannot help falling for someone, and sometimes their actions and feelings are bundled. Let your friend know that it is ok and you are flattered but you are straight. Tell him you want to continue being his friend not matter what. With all deep emotions, it takes time to defer it to something else. He may need time to get over you. This depends on how deep his feeling are for you. I'm sure you understand when you have a crazy crush on a girl and it's not recopriated. He is probably feeling the same. I'm sure the two of you are really close since you were in the foster home together. His emotions for you as a friend is very important as well as for you. I hope you can mend this friendship and move forward.
2016-05-24 20:11:14 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Since she's not tried anything silly with you all this while why be scared.Friends are friends no matter the situation,the fact that she's gay doesn't mean that you are or that you'll be.Cause like people say that "birds of the same feathers flock together" but to some extent i think that such quote is wrong cause i've been in sure situation and at the end all people could ask is ;How did i get thru witout been infected with my friend's habit,So there's no need to be scared.Just call her and tell her how you feel abt her been gay and your fears and make her promise never to go to that area with you telling her that just because she's gay doesn't mean she a nobody that you guys will still be friends.If there's anything that helps me get thru my fears with people,its having a one on one conversation with them while keeping my fingers crossed watching their moves.So cheer up.
2006-12-15 03:16:10 · answer #3 · answered by Missy 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well honey, I can feel where you are coming from especially when It's a situation that you are not use to. But let me say this if you truly feels that she is a good even though you only known her for a short time then don't judge her because you now her secret. Look she obviously feel and trust you as a friend to tell you about her sexual preference. If she have thought that she couldn't trust you she wouldn't told you. But if you are uncomfortable now that you do know then it's your turn to be a friend to her and tell her how you are feeling now. You at least owe her that much as a friend. But please don't judge her OK.
2006-12-15 04:45:46 · answer #4 · answered by mnmpeices 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
First off, a friend is a friend regardless of their preference!!! And by the way- either she is gay or she isn't, not she seems to be gay, as her friend you would know that. You let her know that you don't get down like that (or do you, u sound confused) and you keep being her friend.
And what does her being available, as in not underage, have to do with it?(u are confused, aren't you) How do you know she doesn't get these guys you aren't with her 24/7
2006-12-15 02:28:51 · answer #5 · answered by torilynn :) 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
How do you know she will ask you out? Did she say she was interested? If she's you're friend you shouldn't act funny towards her, she can get that treatment from others. If she does ask her out just tell her no, the same way you would tell a man. If she can't accept that then rethink the friendship.
2006-12-15 07:30:53 · answer #6 · answered by nikkid6910705 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If you have told her you are not gay, shes knows you wont date her. Your friend really needs you right now while she is comeing out to everyone. So accept her and help her through this. SHe honestly cares about you and trusts you a lot to help her.
2006-12-15 02:20:29 · answer #7 · answered by laci 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
just be confident in yourself. if you are not gay..she will know that..if you say no thanks..we need to stay friends..she should honor and respect that..but she can still be a good friend. dont be homophobic..her sexual preference does not make her a scary or bad person..just a person with certain likes and dislikes..like all of us..be agood friend and talk to her.
2006-12-15 02:22:26 · answer #8 · answered by wartytoadjody39 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Perhaps, the latent lesbian in you is starting to come out now that you have a potential lover. The boys that she claims to have been with may just be beards.
2006-12-15 02:18:15 · answer #9 · answered by IGH3Rat 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
see this is every body's proble just because your friend tells you they are gay dosent mean they are attracted to you. they told you for you to support them mabey you are curious thats what makes you uncomfortable you might like it if they tried something with you and they dont try anything with you then you become bitter because you feel like damn if she dosent like men and she dont find me cute makes you feel insercure now but get you head out your or her pussy and be a good friend and hook her up with me!!!!!!!!!
2006-12-15 02:26:17 · answer #10 · answered by Mrs W. 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋