I don't get it. I'm fairly attractive. I'm physically fit. I'm smart, and I'm not arrogant; moreover that shouldn't even matter because I attend a very elite university in New England and everyone else here is very smart as well. I'm not antisocial -- people on campus do know me.
So for instance, the other day I asked this guy to lunch because I wanted to get to know him better, and he thought I wanted to interview him. Why don't guys pay any attention to me? What am I doing wrong? And why is the only guy I've ever felt (mutual) chemistry with, a guy who was already in a relationship?
Do I come across as asexual?
Am I too academic?
Do I have too many gay friends? I'm a dancer, so that's natural.
Do I not have a personality/am I not conveying my personality strongly enough?
I mean, I AM friends with guys, though I haven't had time to hang out with them consistently because I get a little reclusive when I'm busy with work. But no matter what, they always see me as "just a friend."
2006-12-13
20:22:09
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Charlotte R.
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Singles & Dating