I have an awful time with my husband. He keeps telling, and showing me that wives are supposed to obey their husbands, or submit. I know what the Bible says to do. I believe, that men from the beginning of the courtship, show respect for that woman's feelings, and wants, and needs. She then in turn sees that in him, and greatly respects, and is proud of that man. Then when she sees that in him, she gives her all to that marriage. My husband wants to turn it all around, and thinks she obeys him first, then all is well. I am getting frustrated, unhappy, and tired. We have been just about seperated since we married. Two years! I have been told, my husband does not have Jesus in his heart, from a pastor. My husband says he is a christian. He is 50, and said his mother always did what his father said. Do I have to live that way in our marriage? I feel like he is childish. All we do mostly, is argue! Any help or suggestions?
2006-12-11
02:39:24
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Marriage & Divorce