I ask this in the religion catagory because she now says things like it was a sin and the sin is hers. I only had the procedure done because her doctor advised it. She very nearly died carrying our daughter and her doctor advised against any more pregnancies for her life's sake. We have two wonderful children, an older boy as well as the daughter, and since the operation was less invasive for the man, vasectomy vs tube tying, I had it done.
She was in total agreement at the time but now seems to think that it was a crime against God and nature and says that it has ruined sex for her.
I miss the sex, I won't try to lie about that, but I am really more worried about her mental state since I don't know where this stuff she is saying is coming from. She won't discuss with me it to any degree and refuses to see a marriage counsoler or talk to her doctor about it as a medical problem and says that I should accept the situation.
2006-11-26
17:55:27
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